Monday, April 12, 2010

How we know we are home...

Gianna found the nearest towel and wrapped herself up like a burrito ;)
My honey just loves the money here, says it looks like monopoly money (he also loves the exchange rate!)
We are staying on the other side of this street
that's our door straight ahead
the dreaded stairs
Yes that's right, we live in the apartment building with the matchmaking agency! Ukrainian bride anyone?!?

Right of Passage

Okay we kept trying for a family shot but it just wasn't working for us (and now it just won't turn either)
Gianna loved my mom's dinner

Last night, we ventured out to our first restaurant. Call us chicken but we decided to hit the local TGI Fridays. It seems a right of passage for adoptive families to eat at Fridays, so we thought we'd give it a shot. It is also extremely easy to find, within walking distance (we haven't gotten the nerve up to attempt a death-defying taxi ride) and its nice to have a waitress that speaks English (even if she looks like she absolutely hates life) :) It's so funny because I must admit I am a total health nut. However, on this trip, I have eaten anything and everything placed in front of me. From way gross airplane food to fried this and that, I have eaten it all. I think mostly though, I have enjoyed the chocolate and bread and butter. Yup, that is a complete meal in my book these days, it covers both veggie and fruit categories...and did I mention the bread is white? Well, at least it is homemade AND absolutely delicious. You might wonder how I plan to fit into my pants in the next couple of weeks. Well, I think the four flights of stairs (with two sets of stairs per landing), walking everywhere, and the fact that inside the buildings is so hot you SWEAT, sweat, sweat should take care of most of it. :)

Hint to anyone coming soon: Please learn from my husband and remove the shower head from the silver piece it is hanging on BEFORE you turn on the shower. If not it will fly off the wall and attack you, all while spraying you and your clean clothes with water! It is really only one of those attachment hose jobs that you hold and spray yourself with ;)

Also, please do not laugh when they ask you (with a straight face) if you would like gas, after ordering your water at a restaurant. I was very proud of my husband for keeping it together, like all boys, I mean men, gas is ALWAYS a laughing matter in our house. However here, it simply means bubbly water (and not something to torture your wife with ;))

We really didn't do too much today. Last night my husband and I were up ALL night. Neither one of us could sleep. I'm not sure if we are still struggling with the time difference or if we just couldn't turn our brains off. Our little lady slept pretty well until about 2am, so at that point we all made a group trip to the kitchen and just sat and ate anything and everything in site ;) She loved sitting on the kitchen stool snacking down at 2am. We then laid back in bed with her and did what any good american parent would do...started up a movie! So as we watched Cars for the second time in one day (a big no no in our house), Gianna kept saying up late and tv head! lol...so we've pretty much laid low today, taken a nap, and will probably head out for some pizza for dinner. Uncle Nikko told us where a good pizza place is, so hopefully we can find it and hopefully once there can manage to order pizza WITHOUT mayo. (why would anyone want mayo on a pizza?!?)

Also, please keep us in your prayers as tomorrow is our big SDA appointment. We are waiting to hear from our facilitator what time it is. Once I hear, I will post it. (The State Dept. of Adoption will meet with us and ask some questions of us, they will then offer us our kids official referral, we maybe able to learn some very basic information about each of them and how they were left, and perhaps see a baby pic, after this appt we will come back to our apartment and wait until the paperwork is drawn up, which we will then have to go back and pick up - hopefully this will be the same day, if not we will have to wait another day to travel to our kids region because we cannot see the children without this official paperwork.) Please pray that our SDA appointment would be quick and easy and that we would not encounter any difficulties. If we get our paperwork tomorrow, we would probably leave at approx. 4am on Wed. morning to drive the 4 hours to where our children's orphanage is.

UPDATE***Our SDA appt. is at 10 am Ukraine time (which is 3 am home time)



Sunday, April 11, 2010

Airport Pics



Home Sweet Home





We are here!

After hours and hours of traveling, we are in Kiev! I don't think I've ever been as exhausted as I was yesterday. The night before we left, we stayed at a hotel and between the snoring from my mom and the hacking cough from my husband (yes he is okay, he just has this dry cough at night), sleep DID not come, AT ALL. We also had to get up at 3:30am to fly out. We did get to spend some time (not long enough!) with my sister, her babies to be (she is a mommy to twins!), and her husband in the Cincinnati airport before we left for Paris (our layover was almost 7 hours), although we only got to spend the first couple of hours with them becuz she had a doctors appt. Thanks Auntie Jenn and Uncle Chris for Grover and the Count - they have made the trip all the way to Ukraine in Gia's hot little hands (and they slept with us)!!! Right as we were getting ready to board for Paris, we found out that her doctor was concerned and wanted her to head to the hospital. Unfortunately, we had to board the plane with heavy hearts. All we could was pray. The flight to Paris went pretty well. Gianna was SUCH a trooper. She fought sleep like no one I have ever seen. She finally snuggled up, watched the movie playing, and did manage to get a few hours. God answers prayers (like we didn't already know that!) and we ended up with a tailwind, which means we landed almost a whole hour early in Paris. This was a blessing because we had to go through security again before they would let us get to our connecting gate. We also managed to get a message from my sister saying that the babies and her were okay and she had been sent home from the hospital (what a huge relief!!!) So we boarded the plane for Kiev with much lighter hearts but much heavier eyelids!!! The flight to Kiev was only about 3 hours and Gianna was most definitely done (as I think we all were) but again she did AWESOME! UNTIL THE END...and so here is my rant to Air France...during ALL of the take offs (including the one to Kiev) and the landings, I hold tight to my little girl. She just turned 2 and she is very tall and skinny for her age, so a lap belt, even a tight one, does NOT hold her into a seat well. Well the mean French flight attendants, decided that right after she had finally fallen asleep in my arms before we landed, that she MUST sit in her own seat. I tried to explain but they would hear NONE of it. And were extremely RUDE. Okay, so I put her in the seat, which of course, wakes her up and she starts SCREAMING and throwing herself around. Now she is scared because we are landing, their is a French dude yelling at us, and I'm trying to strap her in. Great fun! Well I thought I'll just hold onto her, so I put the armrest between us up and snuggled down close to her to hold her into her seat and try to comfort her. So again the rude French man runs over and starts yelling at me again to put the armrest down, so I cannot snuggle close to her and hold her. Nice! So she is screaming and when my daughter gets really mad and scared, she throws up! So now she throws up on my arms and hands. We finally land and as we are taxing in, we hear this ding and I just assumed that I could now unbuckle my screaming puking daughter and comfort her. WRONG! French flight attendant runs over and yells at me again. He says I MUST buckle her back in...what?!????? So I try, but now she is clinging to me for dear life and screaming! As we were getting off the plane, my husband had to restrain himself from punching little French man...I must say I wanted to do the same thing, especially when he looked at us as we were leaving the plane and asked if my daughter was okay now? Like he ever cared! ANYWAY, I will never fly Air France again. But thanks for letting me vent everyone ;) Now we land and Alysha you are right, it is kind of like being herded, you just follow the people in front of you and pray for the best. We are DEFINITELY not in America :) So we head to where you show your passport and wait. My hands were shaking as I handed our passports over to some very scary looking man with an army uniform on and a scowl on his face. At this point you just start praying. It took forever but he finally started stamping our stuff. Mind you, he NEVER said one word to us nor looked at us the entire time. He seriously looked straight out of the Soviet Union. I had to chuckle though because I looked up and saw a sign that showed a picture of a lady smiling as someone handed their passport over to be stamped and the sign said in English something about Ukraine and welcome there...ha! So we then go get carts and get our luggage, one of the zippers on one of our duffel bags had broken off, so we were presented with a lovely duffel bag in a HUGE plastic bag...NICE! We then head on over to customs and per our family adoption handbook, we head to the red customs line to make our declarations. At this point some Ukrainian lady runs over to us and starts pointing at the green customs line. We say no, we need the red line. She just keeps pointing and insists we move to the green line. Thank you again Alysha, because I remembered that this is what happened to you, so we just moved right through to the green line and went straight through. Oh well, we did try! So now we head for the glass sliding doors and they open up and we look for a man and a sign that says Simons. Lots of men, but no Simons sign! At this point, panic creeps up. We start looking around, walking around...surely our driver must be here. NOPE! No driver, no sign. By now, the very hungry taxi drivers can tell we are confused and pounce on us. My husband starts saying Nyet to them all as I try to comfort my exhausted daughter AND hold back the tears. We wait and wait and wait. Okay, now panic has completely set in!!! We can't understand anything, we are in an airport - but not like anything we would normally associate with an airport, and their is no one to pick us up. I must say my first thought was...get me on the next flight out!!! Thankfully Gianna had fallen back asleep at this point. We finally decide to try to call Yulia, but we could't manage to get my husband's phone to work, even though we had his switched to international before we left. Since Gianna was asleep on me, my mom found an information booth and the woman spoke some english, so she agrees to call Yulia for us. Yulia told the woman to tell us to wait 13 more minutes. So okay, we are relieved that at least someone is on there way for us. But 13 minutes came and went. At this point we had been waiting well over an hour. It was SO hot in the airport and we were all beyond exhausted. We were going on well over 26 hours with no sleep. My mom went over an asked the woman if she would call Yulia again, but this time the lady said no, we just needed to take a taxi. Um, we don't even know where we are going? So my mom starts searching for someone, anyone to help us. She finds a nice man at some mobile "store" and he speaks very broken english, but helps us dial Yulia again. This time she asks where we are and we tell her and she says she will call our driver because he IS now in the airport. YAY!! I have never been so happy to see someone, EVER!!! Poor Uncle Nikko, our driver, had car trouble. He is so apologetic and we are just soooo happy to see him that we really didn't care at that point. So we load up our stuff and head over to our apartment. Unfortunately we arrive at our apartment and quickly realize that it is not going to work. There is only one bed and two chairs, no pull out couch, and no way for all of us to fit. So Uncle Nikko calls Yulia and they find us another apartment but we will have to wait a few hours while they clean it. Uncle Nikko also takes George and my mom to exchange money and get some food. I stayed with Gianna in the apartment and just let her run around. They come back, we eat, and then we wait and wait and wait some more. Finally, about 2 hours later our apartment is ready for us. So we load back up (this includes going down an elevator like I have never seen before - it will close on you - and it only fits 2 people at a time. It also makes a weird grinding noise!) but we load back up the car and off we go again! We get to our new apartment and have to carry everything up 4 flights of stairs....we are definitely going to be in better shape after this trip! But this apartment is PERFECT. It has room for all of us and internet and it is within walking distance of a bunch of stores, restaurants and markets, and their is a "playground" across the street (I'll have to take pics so you all can see). George and I went out for more water and CHOCOLATE! Love, love, love the chocolate here! (also the bread here is amazing!) It made so much better after all the emotions we had gone through. We then crashed and slept and slept and slept! We woke up this afternoon feeling much better about things. I will try to upload some pics so you can see where we are staying. We will get pics of the outside later. I think we are going to venture out and try to find some food. Sorry for the LONG post and the rambling but I am still tired and need to eat! Sunday in Kiev with the church bells is really cool though. Can't say I've ever heard anything like that.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

New Reality

Finally, after days of packing, squishing, repacking, and running around, we are off! Well to Tampa at least! :). Tomorrow, very early, we begin the long trek to Ukraine. Our plane should arrive at about 5am home time. I cannot believe we are finally leaving and I have to say it feels so surreal. There have been so many ups and downs along the way but here we are, literally days away from seeing our beautiful babies. We left the house parents to one amazing child, but we will return the parents to four! Can we say WOW?!? My brain cannot quite process that yet, but my heart is already there. As I write this, I am squished between two car seats in the back of our minivan. I guess this is the new reality of our lives...we FILL a minivan! Please, please keep us in your prayers as we begin this phase of the journey. Specifically, safe and smooth travel (especially that we make a very tight connection in Paris), that are luggage makes it with us (I've heard Paris is a tough one), quick/smooth time with customs, and for a quick and easy SDA appointment on Tuesday! We are hoping to meet our kids on Wed! Auntie Jennifer and Uncle Chris, we can't wait to see you during our layover in Cincy. Gianna has finally stoped saying "I take out" when we talk about the babies in your belly! Thank you Alysha for all your encouragement. You have no idea how perfect the timing of your email was this week. You truly are an amazing sister in Christ and I just hope that one day we can meet in person. (Why do Florida and Cali have to be so far away?!?). Please know that your willingness to sacrifice and follow wherever God called is one of the reasons Tatya, Ana, and Eli will be coming home soon! Had you not opened your heart and your home to Issac, our precious kids would have remained hidden away. From one mother's heart to another, thank you! "See" you in Ukraine all!!

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Resurrection Sunday

Recently, sleep hasn't always come as easily as I would like. My head just runs and runs with thoughts and questions, and emotions fill my heart. Of course, we are literally days away from leaving. So I'm longing for my children and wondering what they are like, who they are inside, what it will be like to meet them, to hold them for the first time. These questions go on and on. Sleep actually came fairly easy for me last night, but it didn't last long. Sometime in the early morning hours, my heart was suddenly awake. I say my heart because I felt first with my heart and then with my head. I know this feeling and quickly recognized it as the quiet whispering of my Father. Grave clothes. What an odd thought right?!? But this is what I heard and then I saw my children wrapped in grave clothes and my heart just suddenly filled with grief. I cried out to God in my heart and as I did, I felt the grave clothes lifting off of Tatya, Ana, and Eli. I cried out again, asking that He replace these, instead clothing them in the love of the Father. I could feel words of acceptance and affirmation flowing from the very throne room of Heaven covering Tatya, Ana, and Eli. After these strong emotions and visions left me, God began to reveal what exactly it was that He wanted to teach me. You see, Tatya, Ana, and Eli are orphans in a country where they have absolutely no value or worth. Their entire life is defined by the fact that they were born with Down Syndrome. This definition means loneliness, neglect, and mistreatment, ultimately ending in a mental institution where mercy comes only in the form of death. Thankfully because of many, many prayers and the power of God, Tatya, Ana, and Eli will not be going to a mental institution. Instead, they will be coming home. Their loneliness and neglect will be replaced with unconditional love and affirmation. Words cannot express my gratitude for this. Resurrection Sunday will forever hold a new meaning in my heart and in our family. However, the sad reality is that there are so many more beautiful children who have no one coming for them. On this Easter, my prayer is that these children will be lifted before their Heavenly Father. I pray that families will come forward, risk it all and seek them out. I pray that those that cannot come forward themselves, will sow into other's adoptions, because adoptions don't just happen. There is so much power in prayer.

~Adoption Update~
We are flying out Friday morning!!! No flights were available on Saturday, so we are leaving a day earlier...that means one less day to get it all done :) We also are flying out EARLY in the morning so we will be spending the night in Tampa. That means we are leaving our house Thursday afternoon!!! Still soooo much to do!
 


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